“The human capacity for burden is like bamboo—far more flexible than you would ever imagine.”
Resilience is a measure of how much you want something and how much you are willing, and able, to overcome obstacles to get it. It has to do with your emotional strength. (Dictionary.com)
“You are only 4 minutes away from the top”.
(Smoky Mountain hiker, November 2020)
Thought I had a good handle on what resiliency really means but discovered I needed to redefine how it is shown. I viewed resiliency from the spectrum of work or emotional intelligence but my recent hike on the Chimney Tops Trail in the Smoky mountains gave me a new appreciation of resiliency.
The hiker from the quote above provided me with inspiration to keep going but I had to decide mentally and physically to keep going up the mountain. The trail was listed as a moderate hike, but I added a new level of difficulty by tackling Chimney Tops after 3 other hikes on the same day. A better plan would have been to save this hike for the next day, but I wanted to experience as much as possible in a short period of time.
I left my hotel with the intent to make four hikes and that concept drove me to keep going up the mountain. I would have felt I was letting myself down if I did not stick with the plan. Also, wanted to test myself to determine how much I could accomplish in one day. My thought process was to make it up the mountain and then celebrate at the top.
I took more breaks on this hike than ever before and was slow on the ascent. My legs felt like I had run a half marathon at this point—in fact, my total hiking mileage for the day was 15.4 miles. Not a bad day walking in the Smoky mountains.
I view my ability to keep pressing onward as a sign of resiliency. I could have tapped out and nobody would have known I gave up on my last hike if I did not bring it up. I could have taken the failure to make it to the top of my last hike to the grave, but I am sure it would have bothered me knowing I gave up. Trust me, I understand my making it to the top of the Chimney Top trail does not make the world a better place, but I needed to make it up there.
I take pride being an active mentor for my tree branches and encourage them to work towards their goals. Quitting on the Chimney Top trail would make my words ring hollow if I did not practice what I preach to my tree branches. The resiliency to make my last hike successful became a metaphor for Walking into the Future. This journey has been successful because I have been able to overcome obstacles and continue to move forward in life. Seems simple but I take a lot of pride in making goals and then crossing them off my list. This process works for me so I will continue to make it a priority.
Proud of the resiliency I showed while climbing the Chimney Top trail. I will admit I need to space my hikes out better in 2021 but I will not stop until I complete them all! 😊
How do you display resiliency in your daily life? What impact does resiliency have on how you get things done? I welcome your thoughts!
“Do not judge me by my success, judge me by how many times I fell down and got back up again”.