I start each day with the purpose of making a difference. Changing the entire world continues to prove to be beyond my ‘super powers’ so I focus on the small victories in life.
The picture above hangs next to my front door, so I must pass it on my way out into the world. It is a simple reminder to ensure my focus remains on the small victories in life that can make a difference to someone.
My psychology educational background was selected because of a desire to understand others better. My thought process has always been to understand what makes people do or think what they do. Psychology provided me with the foundation to understand the importance of helping others. Please note, helping someone can be as simple as asking them how their day is going. Doesn’t have to get super deep to impact someone you cross paths with regularly.
I’ve written about the benefits of volunteering in the local community. This small step can be a huge difference maker for your local community and especially someone who benefits from the organization you volunteer with. Volunteer multiple times with an organization and you will begin to put smiles on the faces of people within the organization.
Mentoring others has always been a huge part of my daily routine. My current Walk into the Future allows me additional time to reach out to my tree branches and put focus on topics they want to explore. We always did this but now my availability enhances how often we get to check in. I enjoy catching up with my tree branches and hearing the great things ‘they’ are doing in the world. Following their progress and seeing how they make a difference is a highlight for me.
I’m able to expand my reach beyond my current tree branches because of my availability. Students and organizations I was not engaged with prior are reaching out for me to help them move forward. Some of the students knew me at FSU in passing or had a friend work with me and recommended they reach out. I find this ‘underground referral’ process a bit flattering and it shows I’ve made enough of a difference for someone to put their friend in touch with me. I never turn down these requests—the students have shown a tremendous amount of ambition by reaching out and requesting assistance. Selfishly, I view this whole process as growing my tree—these new branches know they must help someone else move forward.
Working with organizations is an area I would like to expand in 2019. I currently do some professional development/leadership consulting with the Seminole Tribe of Florida. We have several workshops planned and looking to add more to help them grow as a group. Coordinating with a few local groups to highlight the Authentic Leadership principles for them to incorporate within their leadership development programs. This process would expand my reach and provide a larger group to ensure I’m making a difference.
So, until I gain additional ‘super powers’, making a difference daily is how I plan to conquer the world! 😊
What can you do to make a difference today? Who would benefit from hearing from you? Don’t make them wait—reach out and make a difference!
‘You can have everything in life you want, if you will just help enough other people get what they want.’
A lot of times we discuss networking in terms of attending an event and meeting people face to face. That is a version of networking and requires skills to be able to introduce yourself and discuss mutual interest items. Students use networking events (opportunities) to make their elevator speeches for potential career options. More experienced folks may attend networking events to secure future business, opportunities or leverage to make career changes. There is an art to networking within this type environment and successful outcomes are available to all.
The quote above was intriguing to me as it covers networking from a more basic level. Networking is available to us all but how many go out of their way to ensure we are helping others?
I pose this question because I view my current Walk into the Future as my ultimate way to get what I want out of life because I am willing to help others. The Walk into the Future blog is designed to capture my thoughts, feelings and adventures—sometimes all done within the same article. Topics are also designed to help others—they are based on real world interactions (good and bad) with intent to provide talking points to help readers process my words and put them into play as needed.
An interesting aspect of my current Walk into the Future is I have availability to speak with others (students, potential clients, consultants, etc.) to help them move forward in life. Most of these people reach out to me based on a recommendation which is another form of networking. Meetings are scheduled based on their current schedule to make sure we have enough time to discuss their needs. This form of networking is exciting for me as it helps me generate additional ‘tree branches’ and keeps me energized because I’m making a difference. Networking does not have to be a stuffy process and opportunities are available to us all.
Always remember someone helped us all get where we are today. How available are you when someone reaches out? How can you enhance a networking opportunity to ensure your ‘tree branches’ continue to grow?
I came back to networking as a topic because I believe it opens doors and provides a framework to make a difference. I got agitated (for 2 minutes only) when I reached out to someone for information on a specific organization this person worked for previously. Thought this was a simple request but they automatically referred me to someone else. I never got the two questions I had answered because the person I reached out to wouldn’t help me get what I wanted/needed. Don’t be this person, help people as much as possible and watch how the positive vibes will come back to you MULTIPLIED!
How engaging are you when someone reaches out? What opportunities are available for you to help someone else move forward?
Unicorns: something unusual, rare or unique. (Merriam-Webster)
The term or concept of the mythical unicorn comes up in my conversations from time to time. The unicorn can symbolize different things for people; from the image of a horse like creature with a single horn, to a magical being or someone who is unique.
I’ve been called a unicorn in multiple settings. I wear this designation as a badge of pride because being a unicorn means I have a uniqueness about me.
My life and career pivots have taken me from a computer analyst, classroom instructor, conference planner (US Air Force), career specialist (Macon State College), guidance counselor (Government contractor), adjunct psychology professor (multiple schools), employee development consultant (Goodwill), employer relations (UCF & FSU) and now a blogger/consultant/speaker. The ability to adapt and believe I can pivot into different settings/outcomes generates the unicorn concept some associate with me.
I have a lot of great mentors and friends who provide advice and support to ensure I’m prepared for the next pivot. The efforts from my mentors/friends/tree branches provide me with a platform to stretch my professional boundaries to ensure I’m continually growing.
How do they do that? They feed the unicorn:
Display a desire to partner
Willing to share knowledge
Words and actions match (Consistency)
Tough love when needed
The list above can be used by YOU to feed the unicorns you meet in your daily lives. You can add more ‘feeding’ variables based on the unique situations encountered but my list is a starting point to engage others daily. I’m sure there’s someone you work with who would benefit from being treated as a unicorn. They may not realize their uniqueness or potential until you start to feed the unicorn. You may be surprised by the number of unicorns around you once you start the feeding process.
FYI—I consider everyone who follows and/or reads the Walk Into the Future blog, unicorns. My words, thoughts, and adventures are designed to help you forge your own unique path on your personal walk.
How often do you make the time to encourage others? What benefits can a kind word from you have on the daily outcomes for someone you know? How do leaders build direct reports into valuable team members and future leaders?
Encourage them and watch them grow!
I look for ways to reach out and help my tree continue to grow daily. Some days it’s just a simple text to say hello and other days jumping on a phone call may be a better option to be a people builder.
A simple ‘check-in’ can be the catalyst to help someone experiencing a difficult challenge in their day. This approval process can be what they have been craving but didn’t know they needed.
Leaders can bring this concept into the work environment by having a complete understanding of their staff members. Knowledge of strengths and weaknesses can enhance this process. Look for ways to emphasize and cultivate the strengths of your team to unlock hidden potential. Also look for opportunities to encourage team members to stretch their skills for additional growth. Leaders who encourage their people to test their limits and provide a foundation for growth are ‘people builders’.
I make it a point to tell direct reports, “I don’t care if you make a mistake, just don’t make the same mistake twice”. This statement is my way to let people know they are encouraged and should explore additional ways to get things accomplished in the work environment. We constantly hear about work place diversity but at times hinder the process of diverse thoughts, ideas and concepts.
‘Never let your ego get so close to your position that when your position goes, your ego goes with it’. (Colin Powell)
Everyone wants to be valued—plant the seeds today and watch the people around you grow. Show an authentic belief in them and their overall success. This concept can be utilized in the work environment and with daily interaction with family, friends and others you cross paths with. Take the time to showcase the ‘positive’ when communicating throughout the day. Go ahead and give that vote of confidence to someone who is considering making a big change in their professional or personal life. Your encouragement may be the thing they need to move forward.
You become a ‘people builder’ when you provide the nudge, advice or encouragement needed to help them Walk into The Future.
The concept of the humble leader sounds contradictory to what most people envision in the workplace. The traditional leadership view (real or perceived) cast leaders as hard charging, take no prisoner and only out for themselves.
Humility: the quality or condition of being humble; modest opinion or estimate of one’s importance, rank, etc. (Dictionary.com)
A true leader understands you lead people and manage programs. Not the other way around.
A humble leader displays a level of self-awareness within the workplace to ensure growth for everyone. A humble leader does not seek or need the spotlight to highlight the great work of the team. The humble leader can inspire better team cohesion, eagerness to learn and a better performance outcome for their teams.
The process of leading by example and a leader with a humble approach when working with individuals and teams is an excellent example of this concept. This consistent approach provides a template for others to follow and allows the team to perform knowing the true nature of their leader.
Enable trust in the workplace
A humble leader puts the needs of others before themselves. This could be a simple process of ensuring direct reports have the tools needed to perform their duties. Sounds simple but how many times are work assignments delegated with deadlines, but instructions/tools needed to perform are not provided. The humble leader looks to provide tools needed to ensure overall team success. They are also not afraid to ask questions to ensure the assignment is fully understood. Asking follow-up questions does not show weakness but shows the leader cares and wants to optimize time spent on a specific project.
Being a humble leader does not imply weakness. Humble leaders are always looking to improve themselves and focus on larger, organizational goals—not just their individual goals.
A leader is best when people hardly know that they exist. (Lao Tzu)
What impact does humility have within your current work environment? How would this concept enhance overall productivity in the work environment?